I’ve been thinking about peace quite a bit lately. I’m probably so obsessed with peace because my life is so wild. As I enjoy my very full life, I’ve been pausing and asking myself, “Am I feeling peaceful?” Ah. Such a great question.
According to the apostle Paul, we’re called to peace (see Col. 3:15). Isn’t that phrase intriguing? Have you ever considered that a part of your calling is peace? It’s staggering to consider. God calls you and me to peace.
As someone who can be a bit hyper at time, that phrase gives me pause. If it’s part of my calling, I need to take peace seriously. What does it look like to let the peace of Christ rule in my life so that I am living out the calling that God has placed on me? As I’ve been thinking on this, I’ve recognized a few key partners to peace:
Key No. 1: Prayer is a partner to peace. When Paul calls us to a live of peace, he’s not calling us to be inauthentic. He’s not saying, “Pretend everything is great, and peace will guard your heart!” No. God is truth, and He calls us to deal with our anxieties with honesty. What remains in the dark can’t be healed. If we honestly pour out our hearts to Jesus, telling Him exactly how we feel, He can take our worries and exchange them for His grace. Prayer is where we do this. We cultivate honesty in our relationship with God, and we learn how to pour out our hearts before Him. In prayer, the Holy Spirit changes our hearts and transforms anxiety into peace.
Key No. 2: Forgiveness is a partner to peace. When you’re holding anger and bitterness in your heart toward someone, you simply can’t experience peace. Instead, your mind engages in mental arguments, plots how to get even and connives how to build walls so the other person can never hurt you again. When you forgive, peace enters and there is calm in the chaos.
Key No. 3: Gratitude is a partner to peace. Cultivating a continual attitude of gratitude lowers blood pressure and quiets stomach ulcers. As we thank God for the beauty around us, for His goodness and for the great gifts He gives us, our brain chemistry literally changes, and we’re much more able to dwell in peace (1 Thess. 5:18).
Key No. 4 – Rest is a partner to peace. You can’t be governed by peace if you go nonstop 24/7. I know—I’ve tried! But rest is a part of God’s plan for our lives. It’s been suggested that in order to give your brain recovery time, you need 15 minutes per day of sitting in silence, with absolutely no technology, to daydream. Supposedly if you do this, your creativity will begin to soar again. Now, in all honesty, I haven’t tried it yet—but it makes sense to me, and I’m going to try it soon. God has created our brains to need rest, silence and beauty to revive peace. If we’re going to allow peace to rule in our hearts, we need to create the space for creative rest.
Peace can feel challenging, but I’m praying for you that the Lord of peace himself will give you peace at all times and in every way (1 Thess. 3:16). {eoa}
Becky Harling, an author, certified speaker, leadership coach and trainer with the John Maxwell Team, is an energetic and motivational international speaker inspiring audiences to overcome their greatest life challenges and reach their full God-given potential. Her most recent book is How to Listen So People Will Talk. Her husband, Steve Harling, is the president of Reach Beyond, a nonprofit organization seeking to be the voice and hands of Jesus around the world.
This article originally appeared at beckyharling.com.
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