Self Image

All of us have three images: projected image, perceived image, and actual image. Your projected image is the way you desire others to see you. Your perceived image is how others see you. Your actual image is who you really are.

For so many, their perceived image is what matters
most. Their reputation is of greater importance to them than the true
motives of their hearts. This causes them to project themselves in the way they desire to be perceived. Their efforts are focused on appearances, status, titles, saving face and so forth.

Consider Jesus—He was rejected by many, slandered by the
influential, lied about by the rulers, and viewed by the establishment
as a heretic or even demon inspired. His perceived image was not favorable in the eyes of many, especially the notables. Yet His actual image was quite different, for Scripture states that He is the express image of the Father (see Hebrews 1:3).

Jesus was a person of integrity—He was the same with the
people He met as He was with His Father. He did not boost His
reputation and did not seek the accolades and approval of men. He only
cared for what was important to His Father. That is our Father’s goal
for us, and it should be our goal as well.

“We must all appear and be revealed as we are before
the judgment seat of Christ” (2 Corinthians 5:10, AMP). We must
remember that our projected or perceived image is not what will be
revealed before the entire assembly of heaven. Rather it will be our actual image, our true heart motives and intentions.

Paul continues: “It is because we know this solemn fear of the Lord that we work so hard.”

(2 Corinthians 5:11, NLT). The fear of the Lord keeps us in touch with our actual image. The opposite is true as well: The more we lack the fear of the Lord, the more we lean upon our projected image.

You will serve who you fear. If you fear God, you’ll obey
God. If you fear man, you’ll ultimately obey man’s desires. For this
reason, Proverbs tells us it is dangerous to be concerned with what
others think of you. (see Proverbs 29:25).

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