It’s OK to tone down certain charismatic manifestations to make church
visitors feel welcome.
I love it when the Holy Spirit moves in a church service. But I also
know there’s a fine line between charismatic and charismaniac.
Too often, those of us who love spiritual gifts get carried away—and before too
long things get strange. What is supernatural turns weird, and what is
prophetic becomes pathetic.
This is not a new problem. Two chapters of Paul’s first letter to the
Corinthians are devoted to this dilemma. Even in the first century, people
misused charismatic gifts to get attention. The abuse of speaking in tongues
created pandemonium, and the lack of order invited an apostolic rebuke.
“The apostle Paul was ‘seeker friendly’ in the
best way. He urged the Corinthians to leave room for spiritual gifts, but he
also warned them to avoid charismatic excesses.”
I’m mentioning this topic now because Resurrection Sunday is coming up
in a few days—and more visitors will show up at Easter services than on any
other day of the year. Hopefully all those visitors will hear the gospel and
feel God’s power—rather than walk away confused because overzealous or immature
saints ruined the experience.
I’ve never been a fan of the “seeker-friendly” philosophy. I don’t want
to limit God or tell Him what He can or can’t do in church. But there’s nothing
wrong with creating healthy barriers so that certain “characters” in your
congregation don’t ruin the meeting or scare people. In my years of ministry
I’ve identified the All-Time Worst Meeting Spoilers.
1. Bertha the Banner Queen. Colorful pageantry can enhance a worship experience, if it’s done
tastefully. It can also be horribly distracting if the banners look like cheap
props from a high school version of Camelot. They also can trigger
lawsuits, especially if someone from the arts ministry whacks a visitor in the
head with a wooden pole or jabs them in the eye! If you are using flags or banners,
insist that carriers stay far enough away from people to avoid accidents.
2. Norm the Ninja Warrior. This is the guy who insists on waving a sword (and not a plastic one!)
near the stage during worship. Someone needs to remind this man that “our struggle
is not against flesh and blood” (see Eph. 6:12). When my kids were small I took
them to a charismatic church where people waved swords and shields during
worship. One of my daughters was horrified and begged me never to take her
again to what she called “the sword church.”
3. Darla the Dancing Diva. Dancing is a legitimate form of worship, and it’s entirely biblical
(see 2 Sam. 6:14) when done in holiness. But we are inviting disaster if we
allow someone with unresolved sexual issues to get on the stage and writhe like
a stripper while the congregation cringes. Church is no place for the daughter
of Herodias to perform in gym shorts.
4. Herschel the Shofar Blower. I wish I had a dollar for every time I’ve heard someone ruin a worship
service by snorting into a ram’s horn. This ancient biblical instrument can
rouse God’s people to action if blown correctly. But if it is blown by an
amateur, it sounds more like a tortured animal—especially when amplified by a
state-of-the-art sound system. If you open your worship with a pitiful
“MMMMWWWWAAAUUNNNCCCKKK!” sound, your visitors will remember the pain you
caused their ears—and they will never return.
5. Manny the Manifester. If you want visitors to head for the door before the sermon begins,
make sure this guy gets overly excited during worship. He might fall on the
floor, vibrate or act like he is having convulsions. (And he will tell you he
can’t control himself when the “anointing” hits.) Meanwhile, visitors seated
behind him will assume he needs medical attention. When they realize this is
acceptable behavior for your congregation, they will run out!
6. Agnes the King James Prophetess. Nothing dampens the mood of a church more than a raspy-voiced church
member who feels it is his or her duty to scold everyone with a pointed finger.
After the angry rebuke, they always tack on the obligatory “THUS SAITH GAWD!”
Don’t let angry people practice their prophetic gift on an audience. When a
true prophetic message is given it will be tempered by love, and the congregation
will feel encouraged and edified (see 1 Cor. 14:3). And remember: Mature
prophets will speak in a normal voice rather than channeling the Elizabethan
version of James Earl Jones.
The apostle Paul was “seeker friendly” in the best way. He urged the
Corinthians to leave room for spiritual gifts, but he also warned them to avoid
charismatic excesses. If you are sensitive to “Easter only” seekers, they will
be more likely to listen to your message and come back next week instead of
waiting a year to see if you’ve changed.
J. LEE GRADY is the former editor
of Charisma and the director of The
Mordecai Project. You can follow him on Twitter
at leegrady. He is the author of several books including 10 Lies the Church
Tells Women, 10 Lies Men Believe and The Holy Spirit Is Not for Sale.
J. Lee Grady is an author, award-winning journalist and ordained minister. He served as a news writer and magazine editor for many years before launching into full-time ministry.
Lee is the author of six books, including 10 Lies the Church Tells Women, 10 Lies Men Believe and Fearless Daughters of the Bible. His years at Charisma magazine also gave him a unique perspective of the Spirit-filled church and led him to write The Holy Spirit Is Not for Sale and Set My Heart on Fire, which is a Bible study on the work of the Holy Spirit.