The Day I Said Goodbye to Oscar Logan

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J. Lee Grady

When someone dies right after you
shake his hand, you realize how close we all are to eternity.

Saturday, in between two sessions at a ministers conference in Virginia, I
noticed an older black man sitting near me. Everyone else in the hotel lobby
was chatting and drinking coffee, but this man was sitting alone—and he seemed
troubled. It was time to go to the next workshop, so I walked over to the guy,
said hello, shook his hand and added, “God bless you, sir.”

big deal—just a casual gesture. Or so I thought.

minute later there was a commotion in the lobby, and I heard someone say that a
man had collapsed. Paramedics arrived within minutes. People were praying. My
friend Dayton, the host of the conference, asked everyone to clear the area so
the emergency workers could do their job.

I got out of my session an hour later I heard the news. Rev. Oscar Logan Sr., a
60-year-old minister from Chester, Va., had died—most likely from a heart
attack. I was the last person to shake Oscar’s hand before he stepped into

Maybe. Or perhaps it was the Holy Spirit who prompted me to shake Oscar’s hand.
Maybe it was to comfort him. Or maybe it was a subtle way of saying: “Goodbye,
brother. I’ll see you in heaven soon.”

not every day that a guy drops dead a few seconds after you meet him. It was
one of those attention-grabbing reminders of the brevity of life.

learning more about Oscar, I realized this is just how he would have wanted it
to be. A Vietnam veteran who was wounded in combat, Oscar was an evangelist at
heart. In the last years of his life, after his retirement, he served as an
usher in his church, distributed food to needy people and took elderly folks to
doctor appointments.

he constantly asked people if they were ready to meet God. “He was always doing
one-on-one evangelism,” my friend Dayton told me. “He was the guy who was
always striking up conversations about the Lord and praying for people.”

appropriate that Oscar’s death on Feb. 26 would immediately trigger more
conversations about God. Oscar was ready to meet his Maker. Are you?

long has it been since you pondered eternity? James 4:14 says: “You do not know
what your life will be like tomorrow. You are just a vapor that appears for a
little while and then vanishes.” The Message Bible puts it even more bluntly:
“You don’t know the first thing about tomorrow. You’re nothing but a wisp of
fog, catching a brief bit of sun before disappearing.”

I found a website called death-clock.org that actually calculates how
much time a person has on earth before they die. It is based on current life-expectancy estimates. The user is asked to fill in their birth date, health
status, body-mass index and typical emotional mood. Then, after entering this
data and clicking the “Submit” button, voila! It gives you the estimated
date of your death and shows how many days, hours, minutes and seconds you have

Tick. Tick.

Of course the Death Clock is not scientifically
accurate—and it includes a disclaimer that the calculator “is unlikely to
predict your actual date of death.” When I entered my info, the clock posted
Feb. 13, 2039, on a cartoon tombstone and told me I have 10,210 more days to

know that sounds morbid. But it might not be a bad idea for all of us to do the
math. Too many people today are in total denial about their mortality. They get
so caught up in the distractions, pleasures and worries of this life that they
can’t hear the ticking clock or see eternity racing toward them.

really need to talk to Oscar Logan. But since he abruptly went home to be with
Jesus last Saturday—in church, his favorite setting—I’m sending you a message
from him. Oscar would say: “Life is short. Put your trust in Jesus now while
you still have time.”

J. Lee Grady is contributing editor of Charisma. You can find him on Twitter at leegrady. The Rev. Oscar Logan
Sr.’s funeral will be on March 3 in Hopewell, Va. If you need more information
on how to find the forgiveness of Jesus Christ, click here.

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J. Lee Grady is an author, award-winning journalist and ordained minister. He served as a news writer and magazine editor for many years before launching into full-time ministry.

Lee is the author of six books, including 10 Lies the Church Tells Women, 10 Lies Men Believe and Fearless Daughters of the Bible. His years at Charisma magazine also gave him a unique perspective of the Spirit-filled church and led him to write The Holy Spirit Is Not for Sale and Set My Heart on Fire, which is a Bible study on the work of the Holy Spirit.

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