Be Sure to Teach Your Son These 10 Things for His First Date

When I was working with teenagers, I was approached by a high school guy I had befriended. He was a freshman and going to his first homecoming dance. He was nervous and asked me for advice about how to treat his date. I took a moment to think back to my own first homecoming and first date. It all felt so awkward, but at the same time, my dad prepared me well. Even so, I was the same kind of nervous I was seeing in the poor kid sitting across the table craving advice. As I started to tell him, I was shocked as he took out a pen and paper to write down what I was saying.

There is plenty of debate about teen dating, but I think it provides a great opportunity for teens to practice relating to one another. So, as our sons venture out into this new phase of life, we need to prepare them with a great foundation. There are several principles I think are important for our sons to know in treating a girl well on a first date. Here are 10 things to teach your son for a first date.

1. Bring her flowers.

All women are beautiful, and this is a symbol of acknowledgment.

2. Be on time.

A man is a leader and a provider. This is a sign of self-discipline.

3. Clean your car.

No woman wants to get into your dirty automobile. Women like things clean and straight.

4. Open all doors.

It might seem old-fashioned, but a gentleman should open all doors, including the car door.

5. Pull her chair out for her.

Before sitting down at the table, first pull her chair out and let her sit first.

6. Use all the manners you’ve been taught.

Place your napkin in your lap. Use the proper utensils for the proper course. Chew with your mouth closed.

7. Let her order first and don’t eat until she has taken a bite.

I’ll admit that my wife doesn’t like it when I wait until she eats before I start, but I will continue to do it. I believe it bolsters the attitude of putting the other person first and shows your willingness to sacrifice for her.

8. Be pleasant and charming.

Smile. Engage in conversation that she will enjoy. Do not spend the entire dinner talking about football. Let her lead the conversation to a place she is comfortable.

9. Pay the bill.

Discreetly pay the bill without mentioning the cost. Always tip generously!

10. Close out in style.

You’ve made it this far, now close the deal. Drive her safely back home. You do not need to kiss her to consider the date successful. If it feels awkward or not right, then don’t do it. Walk her to the door, give her a hug and thank her.

What are some other things our sons need to know before a first date? {eoa}

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‘American Idol’ Winner Maddie Poppe Got Her Start in Church

Maddie Poppe took the crown in ABC’s reboot of American Idol in last night’s season finale.

“I watched Maddie at church, sing in Sunday School,” says Mike Ruby, who is organized Poppe’s concert during her homecoming episode. “She was on the backstage setup crew … helping set up concerts for other acts.”

Fellow Christian Cade Foehner made it to the top 10 this season.

Of Maddie, he says: “You are one of the most unapologetically honest people I’ve ever met. You are one of only people who sounds just as angelic in a hotel room for three people as you do on a stage in front of millions.”

The season finale also revealed Poppe is dating runner-up Caleb Lee Hutchinson.

Hutchinson is a believer as well.

I have spent the last 24 hours trying to comprehend my life right now. I just want to thank the Good Lord for allowing me to be doing this and turning my tragedy into triumph. Secondly, thank you to America, for believing in me and putting me in a state of disbelief over the support I’ve been getting from y’all. Not to long ago I had little to no support at all other than my parents. I don’t take any of this for granted y’all. Thank you so much, I will work harder than I ever have and try to make y’all proud. Thank you so much to all my #hutchpuppies for being on this journey with me. God Bless! #americanidol

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The couple is open about their faith on social media. Here are some examples:

My brother âœï¸ Thankful for our friendship and the privilege of knowing such an amazing person.

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Exactly two years ago today I thought this was what I really wanted. But sometimes what God doesn’t give you turns out to be the biggest blessing.

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Happy Birthday to the guy who showed me what it means to be a man. Who taught me how to fish and hunt. To love Jesus and be there for the ones you love. I wouldn’t be the guy I am today without your love and guidance. You are the man. I love you.

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Soul-Stirring Ways to Reduce the Stigma and Shame of Mental Illness

When someone you love is diagnosed with a mental illness (major depression, bipolar, schizophrenia, borderline personality disorder, PTSD, OCD), something ugly tends to rear its head, the two-headed monster of stigma and shame.

This monster gets its life from those who don’t understand. They’re either uninformed or misinformed. Has that been your child’s teachers? Their friends? Their friend’s parents? Your friends or co-workers? Family? When stigma and shame are directed at your son or daughter, or at you, the hurt runs deep. You become protective. Defensive. Angry. Sad. Embarrassed. At a loss for how to respond.

But if you were honest, maybe you’d admit that the monster has taken up residence in your mind too. It did in mine.

You need to hear these things. Write them down and look at them often:

  • Don’t believe your child’s value in this world is diminished because of their mental illness.
  • Refuse to accept embarrassment from those who have stereotypes—they may not realize they have them.
  • Resist isolating because pulling away would be less painful. In the long run, withdrawing will hurt you and them even more.
  • Affirm your child’s worth regardless of their diagnosis. They’re no less of a person.
  • Accept that you have no control over what others think. Don’t give them this power over you.
  • Choose to build a supportive community. We need each other. We’re not supposed to travel this road alone.

How can we lessen the stigma and shame society associates with mental illness?

I have two suggestions:

1. Education and information. Knowledge corrects misconceptions. Being informed leads to increased understanding, lessening fear and prejudice. It creates greater compassion and empathy. This was my experience. After I attended NAMI’s Family to Family class I finally understood better what my daughter was going through. The result–more compassion and realistic expectations. Be sure to check out NAMI (the National Alliance on Mental Illness, ) for resources and information.

2. Honest and open dialogue. When we hear empowering stories, they have a positive effect. Honest conversations reduce anxiety on the part of those who were previously uninformed. When we have no experience with something, we tend to shy away and avoid. We fear it. The topic of mental illness can be uncomfortable if we’re ignorant, uninformed, or misinformed. We feel awkward, unsure of ourselves, of what to expect, of what to do and how to respond appropriately.

Authentic sharing helps everyone. Family, friends, co-workers, and neighbors will be less likely to treat those living with mental illness with attitudes of prejudice.

As we share our experiences, Mary Widdifield and Elin Widdifield say in their book Behind the Wall, that each can be “a little victory as we break through the stigma.” Their book is a collection of stories of mental illness as told by parents. I think this sounds like a good book for my summer reading list.

The stigma attached to mental illness can be reduced when we do our part to learn all we can, talk about our experiences and encourage others to do the same.

Together we can make a difference.

We can create a more hopeful, welcoming world for those who struggle.

For more help check out: The National Alliance on Mental Illness

This Bible verse encourages me:

“Nevertheless I am continually with You; You have held me by my right hand” (Ps. 73:23). {eoa}

Dena Yohe is the author of You Are Not Alone: Hope for Hurting Parents of Troubled Kids (2017). Co-founder of Hope for Hurting Parents, she is a blogger, former pastor’s wife and CRU affiliate staff. She and her husband, Tom, have been guests on “Family Talk With Dr. James Dobson,” “Family Life” with Dennis Rainey” and “Focus on the Family” with Jim Daly. A proud mom of three adult children, she loves being Mimi to her grandchildren. Find out more at .

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How Your Discontentment Can Breed Deception

In one of my seasons of frustration, not understanding what was going on and why things were not as I felt they should be, I heard that still, small whisper, “Be still and be content!”

The Holy Spirit brought to my remembrance that “Paul learned to be content!” As we walk the runway of life and encounter all the detours of life, it is sometimes hard to put a smile on and say, “All is well.”

I began reading the book of Philippians, as I knew that was where Paul said, “For I have learned in whatever state I am to be content” (Phil. 4:11b). I found a secret in his learning process in Philippians 3:13: “But this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind and reaching forward to those things which are ahead.”

God always thinks about the future (Jer. 29:11). Satan doesn’t know the future, so of course he is always bringing up the past. As I meditated on all of these thoughts, I asked God, “How do I forget? Satan is always bringing up the past!” He instantly spoke to my spirit, “You remember.” “Remember,” I thought. Again He spoke, “When you remember, you are choosing your thoughts!” If you are not choosing your thoughts, where do you think those thoughts are coming from?

Paul gives us a clear warning in 2 Corinthians 11:3: “But I fear that somehow, as the serpent deceived Eve through his trickery, so your minds might be led astray from the simplicity that is in Christ.”

Second Corinthians 10:4-5 tells us, “For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strongholds, casting down imaginations and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ.”

Eve took thought of Satan’s words; she allowed them to become a stronghold in her mind. She believed a lie and empowered the liar. Eve did not value the Word of God. She chose to believe Satan over God.

Eve was not content with what she had. That is hard to believe. She was living in a perfect place with a perfect husband, yet she was not content. Her discontentment opened the door for deception, and she walked right in.

Eve had her time in the garden. Now you have your time in the garden of your life. Jesus restored to you everything that was stolen in the garden, including a relationship with Him. You must learn to grow roses from the thorns of life! In my new book, The Real Woman Grows Roses from the Thorns of Life, I share how we learn the season of life and learn to be content.

Buds of life spring forth as you receive the truths of the life-giving revelation in this book, producing roses of peace and joy. Life is full of pain, but misery is optional to the real woman of God.

Abraham Lincoln said, “We can complain because rosebushes have thorns, or rejoice because thorn bushes have roses.” Let’s rejoice and thank God that He is with us, giving us the grace to grow roses from the thorns of life. Remember, roses bloom in season, but thorns are always there. {eoa}

Joyce Tilney is an author and Bible teacher. In her new book, The Real Woman Grows Roses from the Thorns of Life, you will be encouraged and receive seeds of faith for daily living. For more information: therealwomanjt@ and . Her book is available on Amazon.




Why This Muslim Holiday Could Be a Good Thing for the Kingdom of God

Billions of Muslims are fasting right now to commemorate what they believe was the first revelation of the Quran to the prophet Muhammad. But what you don’t know is it’s also an open door for the kingdom of God.

“At Open Doors, we see Ramadan as an opportunity for God to reveal himself to Muslims,” says David Curry, president and CEO of Open Doors USA. “We pray that as they spend time searching out meaning and reflecting on spiritual ideas, that God would meet them where they are and bring them to Jesus.”

He continues: “Sometimes, in other cultures that aren’t as saturated with Christianity, God moves in ways that Americans would consider rare or extraordinary. As a result, we have heard from Muslims in regions around the world who claim to have come to Jesus through dreams and visions. Last year, we talked to Amir and Rasha—a couple from Lebanon—who both said that Jesus had appeared to them in dreams, independently of each other. In the husband’s dream, he said Jesus called to him, ‘I am your Savior. You will follow me.'”

While these miraculous visions are amazing, for some, this month of fasting brings nightmares.

Ramadan often comes with horrific violence against Christians or other Muslims, who are deemed “infidels.”

Curry says that while the majority of Muslims celebrate Ramadan peacefully, in regions that are home to hostile Islamic elements, violence does increase during this time. This is because the Christians who do not fast or otherwise honor Ramadan stand out. When militants catch wind of Christians who are not participating, they see these believers as infidels or traitors to Islam. As a result, some radicalized Muslims see Ramadan as a time of “moral cleansing” that separates the faithful from the unfaithful. They take it upon themselves to rebuke or eliminate those who do not adhere to the teachings of Islam.

“Last year, the Islamic State specifically called extremist Muslim brothers around the world to attack infidels in their homes and in public spaces. We saw similar calls to violence in the two years prior as well. These calls to violence are often followed by attacks on churches, Christian villages, or Christian travelers and other innocent civilians around the world,” Curry says.

Curry says the recent attacks on Indonesian churches in which more than a dozen were killed is likely linked to Ramadan. A radicalized family carried out the attacks. The next day, a similar family attacked police, and an 8-year-old child suicide bomber survived.

Rather than living in fear, though, Curry suggest Christians take the time to befriend their Muslim neighbors during this month, especially in areas not typically prone to violence. In some areas of Egypt, for instance, Egyptian Christians host breakfasts for their Muslim neighbors, to provide them with sustenance that will carry the fasting people throughout the day.

An estimated million Muslims living in the United States, and all of them are compelled to observe Ramadan as a part of their faith.

“In this way, they open dialogue and demonstrate the gospel of loving one’s neighbor in a powerful way,” Curry says. “While this example might not be a good fit for everyone, we can all think about it and look for opportunities to apply it to our own settings.”

Ramadan began May 17 and continues through June 15.

How you can participate:

  • Pray for and with Christians living in countries celebrating Ramadan. Pray they won’t encounter extra persecution during the month of Ramadan, and that they will be able to navigate tricky political, cultural, social and familial realities during this period.
  • Pray they will be able to stand strong in their faith throughout the month and will be able to live out their faith, even within difficult contexts. Pray they will be able to love Muslim neighbors and show the love of Jesus to everyone they meet during Ramadan.
  • Pray for Muslims during Ramadan. Pray their search for God will find its answer in the risen Jesus. Pray they will be kind to Christians in their midst.
  • Download the free guide to pray for the Muslim world during Ramadan at .



The Shocking Connection Between Everyday Items and Demonic Activity

Most people today consider dolls to be collectibles or children’s toys. But Kimberly Daniels thinks twice about having one in the house. In her book, Breaking the Power of Familiar Spirits: How to Deal With Demonic Conspiracies (June 5, 2018), Daniels writes on how evil spirits operate under covers that make up our everyday lives. From fashion to furniture, from trends to traditions, and from rituals to dolls, Daniels shows how the familiar areas of our lives can harbor demonic influences. One of these areas is fetishes.

“Most idolatry is rooted in fetishism,” Daniels writes. “Simply put, a fetish is an object with a spirit attached to it. If we’re not vigilant, we can open doors to familiar spirits in our lives and homes simply by the items we possess and the practices we keep.”

In writing on fetishism and idolatry, Daniels goes back in history to when dolls had spiritual value attached to them. In religions and occult practices, dolls were used as supernatural intermediaries to confer favor, represent gods and enact witchcraft.

Daniels warns readers to avoid things with occult origins, as they give the enemy access points into our homes. The subtle yet familiar influences can be especially damaging because they can go undetected in your life for years. Breaking the Power of Familiar Spirits shows why the church must no longer view the world with only natural eyes. Christians must see what hides within the spiritual realm.

“If you create an atmosphere of holiness and seek God,” Daniels says, “everything that is not like God will come out of hiding and be exposed.” {eoa}

Kimberly Daniels is a former city council member in Jacksonville, Florida, and a current member of the Florida House of Representatives. She is a sought-after conference speaker and preacher and is the pastor of Spoken Word Ministries in North Florida. Her athletic ability and military background give her an ability to release strategies to the body of Christ that promote discipline, endurance, and deliverance. She graduated from Florida State University and Jacksonville Theological Seminary and is the author of several books, including From a Mess to a Miracle; Clean House, Strong House; Give It Back; Prayers That Bring Change and Selah.




Beth Moore: ‘Legalism Will Make a Liar Out of You’

Bible teacher Beth Moore recently tweeted to her nearly 900,000 followers one challenge she’s faced as she’s grown older:

Moore elaborated on the dangers of legalism:

“When our legalism exceeds our compassion, we have abandoned the heart of Christ to cling to the safety and control of the letter of the law. Legalism is a pet python. You can only keep it in the cage so long. Eventually it will slither out and crush the life out of you.”

From demanding accountability within the church to imploring the administration of grace, Beth Moore has been making waves across Christian and public media.

Last month, her voice went viral when she called on church leadership to be cognizant of sexual assault and oppressive culture. She shared about her years in ministry and how being a woman often provoked tension with her co-ministers, the majority of whom were men.

Her activism prompted a response from The Gospel Coalition apologizing for either participating or being silent in the presence of misogynistic behavior within the church. {eoa}

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Chasing Time

It’s hard to “be in the moment” when we are thinking about the moment that comes next.

Do you ever find yourself anxious to finish one meeting because the next meeting is about to start? Do you feel your day is overprogrammed? Do you end a day wishing you could have spent more time with someone you barely engaged?

I often reminded college students to enjoy their time in the classroom because it would end soon enough. Most students were focused on “What must I do to graduate?”

I asked them to be in class with more than their physical presence. “Wherever you are, be there! Don’t chase the end of the semester. It will arrive soon enough.”

I think about how present Jesus was with people. When He looked into someone’s eyes, time stood still. He made people feel His compassion for them.

It wasn’t just His words that made an impact. He seemed to influence others with His eyes. People dropped whatever they were doing so they could follow Him.

He seemed to care deeply about whoever He was with. He focused on the one in front of Him or within the sound of His voice. He knew when one had pushed through a crowd to touch His garment.

Even now, we seek His presence. His sheep know His voice and want more of it. We would gladly touch His garment.

I believe we please the Lord when we receive each other in His name. As we honor one another with our time, we give our scarcest commodity.

We need not chase time. We must embrace it.

Bless someone today with your undivided attention.

“Whoever receives one of these children in My name receives Me. And whoever receives Me receives not Me, but Him who sent Me.” (Mark 9:37)




The Painful Injury That Drew This Memorable TV Star to the Lord

Atticus Shaffer has been making audiences laugh for the past decade with his comical portrayal of “Brick,” the youngest of the three Heck children on ABC’s popular sitcom The Middle.

Shaffer, whose nine-year performance officially comes to an end when the series finale airs on May 22, is also an outspoken Christian who openly shares how his faith has guided him through difficult times.

Shaffer, 19, was born with osteogenesis imperfecta, also known as brittle-bone disease, a painful genetic disorder that is characterized by easily broken bones.

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He recently revealed on ‘s Pure Talk that a painful injury due to the disorder a few years back led him to think more deeply about God—and salvation.

“I really committed to Christianity when I was 15,” Shaffer said. “I just knew I had that draw to say, ‘I need to know the Lord. I need to know where I stand. I need to pick a side.”

Shaffer got baptized in 2015 and hasn’t looked back. Watch him describe his struggles, triumphs and how he came to faith:

The actor also noted that his struggles with the genetic disorder have helped him to be more “empathetic and compassionate,” as he has had to endure —and overcome—extreme pain.

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“I do know pain. I’ve had many fractures in my life … I’ve had plates, screws, rods put in through all my legs, my back is in an s-curve because of it,” Shaffer said. “[My disorder has] helped me to be more empathetic and be more compassionate. You get placed in situations where you have to depend on God.”

Shaffer also discussed his iconic role as “Brick,” a character whom he described as a “role model”—an example of truly living with authenticity.

“The character of Brick … there’s something so important about him in today’s times,” he said. “Because he is a role model character. He shows it’s OK to be unique.”

Shaffer said he will miss the cast and crew of The Middle, as they formed a family-like bond over the years. The actor also discussed the show’s ability to stick to its moral foundations, remaining a safe option for family friendly viewing throughout its nine seasons.

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“It’s been nothing but an adventure,” Shaffer said. “We really stuck with the morals that we had.”

Issues were approached on the show, he said, from a realistic perspective.

“We took real life situations … that happen,” Shaffer said. “It was really sticking to the morals and a lot of the storylines were based on things that the writers went through themselves.”

In the end, the actor encouraged Christians to remember that they can have a major impact in secular industries.

“I think we can do some of the best work in the secular world as Christians,” he said, encouraging people to be respectful and set good examples for non-believers. “We’ve been called upon to be lights in the world.”

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California Dream Has Become More Like a Nightmare

In recent years, the number of people moving away from the state of California has greatly outnumbered the number of people moving into the state. Reasons for the mass exodus include rising crime, the worst traffic in the Western world, a growing homelessness epidemic, wildfires, earthquakes and crazy politicians who do some of the stupidest things imaginable. But for most families, the decision to leave California comes down to one basic factor: Money.

For a lot of Californians, it simply does not make economic sense to remain in the state any longer. So, over the past decade, approximately 5 million people have picked up and moved elsewhere, and many believe this trend is going to accelerate if California does not start doing things differently. The following is from an excellent article by Kristin Tate, author of a new book titled How Do I Tax Thee?: A Field Guide to the Great American Rip-Off.

The largest socioeconomic segment moving from California is the upper middle class. The state is home to some of the most burdensome taxes and regulations in the nation. Meanwhile, its social engineering—from green energy to wealth redistribution—has made many working families poorer. As California begins its long decline, the influx outward is picking up in earnest.

I don’t know anyone who enjoys being taxed at extremely high levels, and in California, extracting more and more revenue from the citizens has become an art form. California’s highest marginal tax rate is now a whopping 13.3 percent, and on average, taxpayers are hit with a 9.3 percent rate.

Taxes also are much lower in Arizona than California. California residents pay nearly twice as much in state income taxes. The individual income tax rate is percent in Arizona. It’s 9.3 percent in California, according to the Arizona Sun Corridor.

Under the old rules, the tax burden imposed upon Californians was mitigated by federal rules allowing for the deduction of state taxes. But now the new tax bill has made some major changes, and some experts believe this will actually accelerate the exodus out of the state of California. The following comes from CNBC:

In an op-ed in the Wall Street Journal headlined “So Long, California. Sayonara, New York” Laffer and Moore (who have both advised President Donald Trump) say the new tax bill will cause a net 800,000 people to move out of California and New York over the next three years.

The tax changes limit the deduction of state and local taxes to $10,000, so many high-earning taxpayers in high-tax states will actually face a tax increase under the new tax code.

Of course, taxation is only part of the equation.

For many, the exceedingly high cost of housing in California is the primary reason they have chosen to leave. At this point, the average price of a home in California is more than $200,000 above the national average.

According to Zillow, the average price for a home in the U.S. was $261,000 in February 2018. The average home price in California was $469,000. In Oklahoma, it was $116,000.

And that $469,000 figure is for the state as a whole.

In Santa Clara County (the home of Google and Apple), the median price of a single-family home is $1.4 million.

Yes, you read that correctly.

In some areas of northern California, the housing bubble is completely out of control. For example, just recently, a burned-out husk of a home sold for more than $900,000:

Real estate agent Holly Barr says she’s never had a listing generate as much attention as the one on Bird Avenue in the San Jose neighborhood of Willow Glen. The house caught fire two years ago during a remodeling job. What was left was a burned-out shell of a California bungalow sitting on 5,800 square feet of land.

When Barr put the property on the market in April for $800,000, the listing made international headlines. It sold for over $900,000—in less than a week. The burned down house will be razed and a new property will be built there that will likely sell for far more.

Well, if families cannot afford to buy a home, why don’t they just rent?

Unfortunately, we have seen rents spiral completely out of control as well.

The median monthly rent for a one-bedroom apartment in the Los Angeles area is $2,249, and in San Francisco, it’s almost $3,400, according to Zumper. The median rent for a two-bedroom apartment in the Los Angeles area is $3,200, and in San Francisco, about $4,500. By comparison, the median rent for a one-bedroom in Las Vegas is $925, and in Phoenix $945, and for a two-bedroom in Las Vegas, $1,122 and in Phoenix $1,137.

Ouch.

Sadly, rapidly rising prices have greatly contributed to the homelessness epidemic that California is dealing with right now.

Even though we are supposedly in an “economic recovery,” the number of homeless people in Los Angeles has risen by an astounding 50 percent over the last five years…

The homelessness issue has achieved a special distinction in Los Angeles. Having increased 50 percent during the past five years, “It’s supplanted traffic as the topic everyone talks about,” says Tom Waldman, spokesman for regional homeless agency.

The homeless are as visible as the Hollywood sign. More than two years after Mayor Eric Garcetti declared a “state of emergency,” about 41,000 are “unsheltered”—sleeping in cars, outside City Hall, under freeway overpasses. The Los Angeles Times calls it “a human tragedy of extraordinary proportions.”

And it isn’t just families that are leaving.

In fact, sometimes entire companies are picking up and relocating to another state. For example, Price Pump Manufacturing Co. is leaving the Golden State and heading for Idaho,

Price Pump Manufacturing Co., an 86-year-old company that has operated in Sonoma for 70 years, bought six acres of land in the Sky Ranch Business Center for about $86,000. The company plans to build a 40,000-square-foot plant at the industrial site east of Interstate 84 and south of Franklin Road.

The high cost of manufacturing in California made it more difficult to compete with other sellers in the United States and across the globe, President and CEO Bob Piazza said. He said the marketplace helps determines prices, and Price Pump could not simply raise prices to maintain a reasonable return on investment.

And I found another article recently about a company that has decided to leave California and is relocating to Phoenix, Arizona:

“A company that manufactures workbenches and lab furniture is relocating to Goodyear, near Phoenix, Arizona, to save money, while creating 30 new jobs in Arizona.

Matt McConnell, director of sales and marketing for IAC Industries, said the move will increase the stability and longevity of his business. IAC is located in Brea, California.

“The commercial property costs in California versus the commercial property costs in other states” made the decision easy, he said.

As long as tech giants such as Google and Apple are thriving, the trends that are driving such dramatic change in the state are likely to continue.

So, we are likely to continue to see a very large exodus from California, and those who are leaving will continue to fundamentally change the communities into which they move.

Because there is such a disparity between the number of people moving out and the number of people moving in, it actually costs nearly twice as much to take a U-Haul from California to Texas as it does to take a U-Haul from Texas to California.

The cost of popular moving truck services, like U-Haul, is largely created through the ironclad rules of supply and demand. Turns out there is much higher demand for trucks leaving high-tax blue states heading to low-tax red states than vice versa.

A route from California to Texas, for example, is more than twice as expensive as a route from Texas to California. Want to go from Los Angeles to Dallas? $2,558. Returning back? $1,232.

Once upon a time, millions of young Americans dreamed of moving to California. It was a land of gorgeous weather, movie stars and endless opportunity.

But now the California Dream has turned into the California nightmare, and people are heading out of the state in droves. {eoa}

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