Chosen by God

Who have been chosen according to the foreknowledge of God the Father, through the sanctifying work of the Spirit, for obedience to Jesus Christ and sprinkling by his blood… —1 Peter 1:2

Why did God make you you and not somebody else? Do you think God misfired? Do you think that there are accidents with God? Do you not know that God had you in mind from all eternity and He shaped you in your mother’s womb, overruling every experience you knew? It is all part of God fashioning you. For He has a purpose for your life, and He has given you something that is yours.

Your calling is irrevocable. This is the promise of a gift from God. It will not be something that you will lose. Something may be wrong with you, but your gift will be intact.

It is too easy to claim a false modesty in this. All of us who are in the body have been given a gift: you may be the eye, you may be the hand, you may be the foot, but the question is, how do you use it (1 Cor. 12:14-26)? Will you make others recognize it? To put it another way, suppose that you are right about something and you know it. You could, if you wanted to, by one word spill the beans and just vindicate yourself.

But what would Jesus have done? As we have seen, Jesus was God, yet He never thrust this upon anyone. They always saw Him only as a man. He revealed His deity to Peter, James, and John on the mountain when He was transfigured before them, yet even then He told them to keep it quiet. But Jesus was vindicated by the Spirit. The Spirit’s witness was enough for Him, and the Spirit’s willingness to show others who Jesus was, was enough for Him. He did not need to broadcast who He was.

He was always found where and when God wanted Him. We need to be found in the same place. Just to know that we are pleasing the Father should be enough. It is upon that goal that we must set our minds.

Excerpted from Meekness and Majesty (Christian Focus Publications Ltd., 1992, 2000).




Exodus Denied Apple Bite

The real reason Exodus International’s “gay cure app” was distorted, censored

Too offensive to too many people. That’s the sole reason Exodus International, a ministry to those struggling with same-sex attractions, received from Apple in late March when the organization’s iPhone app was abruptly removed from iTunes. 

A month earlier, Apple had approved the Exodus app, which provides mobile access to information for those struggling with matters of sexuality and faith. But after gay activist group Truth Wins Out launched a petition and supposedly gathered 150,000 digital signatures, Apple caved.

Apple has yet to offer a full explanation, other than to say the app “violates developer guidelines by being offensive to large groups of people.” Last November, the company, which provides hundreds of apps specific to the LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender) community, removed an app from The Manhattan Declaration, a group of Christian leaders supporting biblical teaching on marriage. Once again, the app was approved until gay activists lobbied for its removal.

Yet both cases also highlight gay activists’ power in distorting reality through major media outlets. The Exodus incident drew national attention, partly because Truth Wins Out swayed media to peg Exodus’ app as a “gay cure app,” and the ministry an “anti-gay religious extremist” group full of “closet cases [who] put people in therapy and try to make them straight.” Meanwhile, Truth Wins Out clearly won out as heroic defenders of gay rights—and not a word was mentioned about free speech.

Jeff Buchanan, a senior director at Exodus, found the silver lining amid the backlash: “While we will always advocate our constitutional rights to be a part of civic dialogue, being ‘offensive’ can sometimes provide opportunities to love those who oppose us all the more fervently.”




Identity Matters

Why sexual orientation doesn’t define you

Many Christians believe chastity is the only answer for those with same-sex attractions. They believe people are gay or straight and that their identities, in that regard, are fixed. If someone is gay, the only option, according to these Christians, is celibacy. Everything else that comes with gay life, however, is OK.

Sadly, we’re so behavior-driven as Christians that we believe as long as we keep our pants zipped and legs crossed, we’re doing well. Sexual sin is not the beginning of a problem; it’s the result of one. While some fall into sexual sin due to a momentary temptation, most stay in sexual sin because it seems to satisfy a core, God-given need for intimacy and relationship. But sex was never meant to be a substitute for relational intimacy. Sex is a godly expression that flows out of healthy intimacy within the confines of heterosexual marriage.

Celibacy is the godly option for all single men and women. Yet today, while many Christians with same-sex attractions are choosing celibacy, they’re also opting to keep the gay identity/label. This falls short of God’s best because identity matters. How we view and refer to ourselves is very important.

Twenty years ago when I began my journey out of the gay lifestyle toward holiness, I could’ve simply worked on my sexual urges and opted not to deal with the deeper issues that fueled my desire for sex. I could’ve called myself a celibate gay man and left it at that. But that wouldn’t have taken me far.

The extreme changes that have since occurred in my heart, mind and life were fueled by an identity transformation. In those early days, I chose to focus most on figuring out who I was in Christ, which led to a change in how I behaved. Simply discontinuing or curbing how I expressed my same-sex attractions wasn’t enough.

The problem with being a gay Christian is that gay takes center stage. But God won’t share His throne with anyone or anything. It’s vital to understand who God is and who He created us to be, especially in light of the fallenness of humanity. Search the Word and you’ll find He has a plan for you that’s born out of the fullness of who He is—and your identity in Him.




Christian Publishing Pioneer Passes

Industry leaders have paid tribute to longtime Christian publisher and CBA founding member Robert L. Kregel, who died Sunday (June 24) after a brief illness. Regarded as a pioneering giant in the Christian product industry, the former president of Grand Rapids, Kregel Inc. was 92.

After his father died in 1939, Kregel took over the family’s used book business at age 20 and expanded the company into a publishing house and bookstore chain. In 1949, he began publishing classic reprints under the Kregel Publications name. Kregel Inc. now includes Kregel Publications, its Spanish imprint, Editorial Portavoz, and two Kregel Parable Christian Stores in the Grand Rapids area.

Kregel, who served a two-year term as CBA’s president from 1960-1962, attended the association’s first meeting at Chicago’s LaSalle Hotel in 1950.

Kregel was “very supportive of the association forming with its dual purpose of getting the Word of God to as many people as possible and bringing the industry together to encourage cooperation (in order) to achieve excellence in business and ministry,” CBA Executive Director Curtis Riskey told Christian Retailing.

During Kregel’s term as CBA president, the association embarked on its first international outreach, funding the establishment of Christian stores in other countries and partnering with Evangelical Literature Outreach to train bookstore owners and staff abroad, Riskey said.

Kregel would be remembered as “one of the strong shoulders that CBA and the Christian retail industry stand on today,” Riskey added. “His unconditional love for others, ethical standards and commitment to the Lord through his work and evangelism exemplify what this industry is all about. His legacy continues today as the mantle passes to his children to keep up the good work.”

Kregel received a Gold Medallion Lifetime Achievement Award from the Evangelical Christian Publishers Association (ECPA) in 1989 at the end of his three-year term of service on the association’s board.

Kregel was “one of the pioneering giants in the industry who devoted his life to communicating effectively about Christ at a time when distribution was far less than it is today, and there was little money in it,” ECPA President Mark Kuyper told Christian Retailing. “He was a dedicated man who built a solid business and ran it with Christian conviction and care.”

Kregel President Jim Kregel said that his father was passionate about the Christian publishing industry. “My dad loved connecting people with books,” he said. “He loved books, and he loved sharing them with others. My dad’s great legacy is how he saw the best in others and tried to help them.”

A memorial service was held Thursday at Calvary Church in Grand Rapids, Mich. Kregel is survived by five children, 14 grandchildren and 26 great-grandchildren. His wife of 63 years, Betty, died five months ago.




Fighting Human Trafficking in Ukraine

Human trafficking is out of control in Ukraine.

More Ukrainian men, women and children have been trafficked abroad and forced into indentured labor or prostitution than in any other Eastern European country since the Soviet collapse.

EFCA’s Reach Global missionary Amy Richey says traffickers target the most vulnerable: “The most vulnerable in Ukrainian society today are kids currently living on the streets, and/or kids that are just coming out of the orphanages. Fifty percent to 60 percent end up in some sort of a trafficked situation.”

That can mean being sold to a labor group or prostitution in Ukraine, or being trafficked across International borders.

Richey says street kids are most vulnerable: “Street kids are not registered in the country of Ukraine. There’s no good way to know they exist and no good way to know they disappear.”

Worldwide, many believe there are 27 million people currently victimized by human trafficking.

Sadly, Richey says, “Ukraine is considered a source country: meaning that’s one of the places that’s the easiest to take people from. It’s usually listed at the top two or three countries.”

Richey says her job is to assist Ukrainian churches in helping kids around them. Her local church in Kiev is involved in a local orphanage. She says Christ is the answer to human trafficking. Knowing that Jesus “loves me and that I’m adopted by Him gives children a very firm foundation to say, ‘No, I don’t need some stranger’s approval,’ or ‘I don’t need this hope and dream of becoming a model in some far away country.'”

Human trafficking has just recently come to the attention of the church. “Five or 10 years ago, people were very afraid to talk about it [in the church],” says Richey. “Fear paralyzed them. Thankfully today, the sentiment is different. The church, as a whole, is much more engaged.”

Richey says the church is getting involved in HIV/AIDS —another previous taboo —”as well as getting involved in trying to guard their children against human trafficking.” Some of their children have disappeared.

Richey described a situation where college students were promised a year of studies overseas. They completed that, then went back home. The trip was then promoted again, and Richey says, “The group that those students recruited were actually sold into modern day slavery.”

Pray that the church in Ukraine will begin to provide orphans and street kids with the tools they need to avoid human trafficking predators, that they will come to Christ, and that churches would be planted as a result of that harvest.




Christian Publishing Pioneer Passes

robert_kregelIndustry leaders have paid tribute to longtime Christian publisher and
CBA founding member Robert L. Kregel, who died Sunday (June 24) after a brief
illness. Regarded as a pioneering giant in the Christian product
industry, the former president of Grand Rapids, Kregel Inc.
was 92.

After his father died in 1939, Kregel took over the family’s used
book business at age 20 and expanded the company into a publishing house
and bookstore chain. In 1949, he began publishing classic reprints
under the Kregel Publications name. Kregel Inc. now includes Kregel
Publications, its Spanish imprint, Editorial Portavoz, and two Kregel
Parable Christian Stores in the Grand Rapids area.

Kregel, who
served a two-year term as CBA’s president from 1960-1962, attended the
association’s first meeting at Chicago’s LaSalle Hotel in 1950.

Kregel
was “very supportive of the association forming with its dual purpose
of getting the Word of God to as many people as possible and bringing
the industry together to encourage cooperation (in order) to achieve
excellence in business and ministry,” CBA Executive Director Curtis
Riskey told Christian Retailing.

During Kregel’s term as
CBA president, the association embarked on its first international
outreach, funding the establishment of Christian stores in other
countries and partnering with Evangelical Literature Outreach to train
bookstore owners and staff abroad, Riskey said.

Kregel would be
remembered as “one of the strong shoulders that CBA and the Christian
retail industry stand on today,” Riskey added. “His unconditional love
for others, ethical standards and commitment to the Lord through his
work and evangelism exemplify what this industry is all about. His
legacy continues today as the mantle passes to his children to keep up
the good work.”

Kregel received a Gold Medallion Lifetime
Achievement Award from the Evangelical Christian Publishers Association
(ECPA) in 1989 at the end of his three-year term of service on the
association’s board.

Kregel was “one of the pioneering giants in
the industry who devoted his life to communicating effectively about
Christ at a time when distribution was far less than it is today, and
there was little money in it,” ECPA President Mark Kuyper told Christian Retailing. “He was a dedicated man who built a solid business and ran it with Christian conviction and care.”

Kregel
President Jim Kregel said that his father was passionate about the
Christian publishing industry. “My dad loved connecting people with
books,” he said. “He loved books, and he loved sharing them with others.
My dad’s great legacy is how he saw the best in others and tried to
help them.”

A memorial service was held Thursday at Calvary Church
in Grand Rapids, Mich. Kregel is survived by five children, 14 grandchildren
and 26 great-grandchildren. His wife of 63 years, Betty, died five
months ago.




Gay Rights Laws Spark Talk of Constitutional Amendment

First, gay marriage in New York. Now, civil unions in Rhode Island.

On a vote of 21-16, the Rhode Island state Senate on Wednesday approved legislation sponsored by Rep. Peter J. Petrarca to allow civil unions for same-sex couples there. In May, the House of Representatives overwhelmingly approved the bill on a vote of 62-11.

The civil union legislation grants legal rights to same-sex partners without the historical and religious meaning associated with the word “marriage.” The measure now heads to the governor for consideration.

“I am very proud of my colleagues in the General Assembly for recognizing that this is the right piece of legislation at the right time,” said Representative Petrarca, who supports same-sex marriage. “We have made great progress in our goal of providing increased rights, benefits and protections for gay and lesbian couples. This bill is a step forward to ensuring equality and improving their quality of life.”

Petrarca’s comments signal that he is not willing to stop pushing the gay rights envelope at civil unions in Rhode Island. In response to the onslaught against biblical marriage between a man and a woman, Christian leaders are calling for repentance and prayer—and action by working to amend the U.S. Constitution.

“Whether by judicial activism or backroom politics, homosexual activists continue to attack and redefine natural and God-given notions of family and marriage. Just as counterfeit currency weakens the real dollar, giving same-sex relationships the status of ‘marriage’ counterfeits and devalues real marriage between a man and a woman,” says Roy Moore, former Chief Justice of the Alabama Supreme Court and president of the Foundation for Moral Law.

“This is a nationwide movement to destroy marriage itself by divorcing it from all its biblical, moral, and historical foundations,” Moore continues. “In no state of the Union have the people ever sanctioned by popular vote same-sex marriage. An Amendment to the U.S. Constitution declaring marriage between one man and one woman would pass the legislatures of at least three quarters of the states, as required, and could become the 28th Amendment of the U.S. Constitution.”




U.S. Government Funding Marriage, Fatherhood

Amid a heavy push for gay marriages in some states, the U.S. government is doing something a little more traditional: funding responsible fatherhood and healthy marriages.

The U.S. Department of Health and Human Services just announced $150 million in funding for Healthy Marriage and Responsible Fatherhood grants. The grants aim to help fathers meet their parenting and financial responsibilities and assist married couples or people considering marriage in building strong relationships with each other and their children.

“To invest in the success of fathers is to invest in the future of our children, our economy, and our communities,” says HHS Secretary Kathleen Sebelius. “This funding provides organizations in underserved communities with the tools they need to promote responsible parenting, to encourage healthy marriage and relationships, and to remove barriers to financial security and self-sufficiency.”

The Responsible Fatherhood program has $75 million in new funding intended to promote or sustain responsible parenting, marriage and economic stability. The Healthy Marriage program has $75 million in new funding intended for pre-marital education, marriage enhancement programs, divorce reduction programs, marriage mentoring programs, and skills programs that may include parenting skills, financial management, conflict resolution, and job and career advancement.

“We recognize the need for fathers to be present in their children’s lives,” says George Sheldon, HHS acting assistant secretary for children and families. “These funding opportunities bring us closer to preparing more fathers to nurture and take full responsibility for their children and for couples to sustain healthy relationships.”




Obama Insult Gets MSNBC Journo Suspended

MSNBC political analyst Mark Halperin said President Obama was acting like, well, an unseemly part that is unsuitable for exposure. Now, he may be out of a job.

“I thought he was kind of a d— yesterday,” Halperin said about Obama. Apparently, he thought it would be bleeped out. But it wasn’t, and the entire MSNBC viewing world heard the foul language.

“Mark Halperin’s comments this morning were completely inappropriate and unacceptable. We apologize to the president, The White House and all of our viewers,” MSNBC said in a statement. “We strive for a high level of discourse and comments like these have no place on our air. Therefore, Mark will be suspended indefinitely from his role as an analyst.”

Obama has not responded to the controversy, though the president once called hip hop artist Kanye West a “jackass” in an off the record comment during an interview with CNBC. Although most people laughed at Obama’s off-the-cuff reaction to the way West treated Taylor Swift at the MTV Video Music Awards, Halpern isn’t getting the same reaction. Halperin, who is also an editor-at-large and a senior political analyst for Time magazine, issued a quick apology.

“I completely agree with everything in MSNBC’s statement about my remark. I believe that the step they are taking in response is totally appropriate,” Halpern said in a statement. “Again, I want to offer a heartfelt and profound apology to the president, to my MSNBC colleagues and to the viewers. My remark was unacceptable, and I deeply regret it.”




Youssef: Every Issue is a Moral Issue

CNN’s Jack Cafferty has advice for the GOP: Park your morality at the door.

On June 14, Cafferty expressed surprise that, in the previous night’s presidential debate, “social issues—like abortion, gay marriage, ‘don’t ask, don’t tell’—still manage to work their way into the conversation. And that may prove to be a problem for Republicans. … These are not the issues that middle America is worried about. They would like to be able to find a job.”

I submit that these so-called “social issues” mean more to “middle America” than Cafferty realizes. We call them “moral issues.” To us, abortion is the slaughter of innocent human life, on a moral level with genocide or the slave trade.

What Cafferty doesn’t understand is that every issue is a moral issue. The current bad economy didn’t just happen. It was the direct result of immoral choices made by our leaders.

The national debt, national security, taxation, the welfare state, border security—there’s not a single issue that doesn’t have a moral component. The government has a moral obligation to live within its means, to protect its citizens, to encourage industriousness and discourage indolence, and to secure our borders against terrorists and drug cartels.

When voters consider a candidate for public office, they should not just ask, “Can this person manage the economy?” They need to know, “Does this person have the values and character to hold public office?”

A candidate who doesn’t value innocent life shouldn’t be president. In 2002, Barack Obama voted to oppose the Induced Birth Infant Liability Act, outlawing infanticide of babies who survive late-term abortions. Obama didn’t merely vote in favor of abortion, but in favor of killing babies outside the womb. A man whose moral compass is this defective cannot make moral decisions.

He promised an end to earmarks, a secure border, no lobbyists in his administration, no recess appointments, airing the healthcare debate on C-SPAN, elimination of failed programs—and he didn’t keep even one of those promises. Candidate Obama opposed “same-sex marriage,” but as president he nullified the Defense of Marriage Act. A record of broken promises does not equal moral leadership.

Cafferty says that middle America doesn’t care about “same-sex marriage.” But polls show Americans overwhelmingly oppose it—not because they hate or feel morally superior to homosexual people. They simply want to preserve God’s plan for marriage. Marriage should remain what it has been throughout recorded history—a covenantal union between a man and a woman. Here are three reasons why Americans object to redefining marriage:

1. The best environment for children is a traditional family—one mom, one dad. Children from stable two-parent homes are significantly less prone to depression, addiction and suicide than children from non-traditional families. A moral society should encourage the family structure that best nurtures children.

2. Marriage ideally brings together two people—one male, one female—who complement each other. Mothers are generally protective and nurturing while fathers tend to challenge children to confront risks and embrace opportunities. Children need both influences. Two “mothers” can’t teach boys to become men; two “fathers” can’t teach girls to become women.

3. Children need to feel connected to their biological origins whenever possible. Yale psychiatrist Kyle Pruett found that children “hunger for an abiding paternal presence.” They struggle with questions about their biological origins and identity.

As a Christian pastor, I have nothing but compassion for homosexual people. I understand that it hurts to know that society doesn’t accept your relationship as “normal” and “natural.” But you can’t force society to accept your way of life through court rulings.

The 2012 election is not just about jobs. It’s about the moral choices America must make. If we hold our elected leaders to a high moral standard, there will be prosperity and plenty of jobs to go around. Leaders with a strong moral compass for the sanctity of life and the sanctity of marriage will generally make sound moral decisions on every other issue affecting our lives.

In October 1789, John Adams, America’s first vice president, gave a speech to the Massachusetts militia. “Our Constitution,” he said, “was made only for a moral and religious people. It is wholly inadequate to the government of any other.” I pray that these wise words would become a motto for our nation—but I fear that they may become our epitaph.

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